Vaness Hudgens - Seventeen cover girl January 8, 2008
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I was amazed to see how celebrities bounce back from a big controversy. Take Vanessa Hudgens for example. She faced a major blow when her naked pictures leaked on the internet for everyone to see. But now, it looks like everything came back to normal and she is now on the cover of Seventeen magazine, smiling and grinning as if nothing happened.
By the time I reach the point when I am living in nursing homes, I still will not have figured out how things really work in Hollywood. Everything just seems to unpredictable. What remains sure for me now is the fact that there are people out there who truly cares for me despite my flaws and shortcomings. I may not be as famous as Vanessa or Zac Efron but I know that deep in my heart, there are more than 20 persons who truly care for me. Just like better caring :D.
Who Handles Break-Ups Better? September 17, 2007
Posted by uhuh in : Dating, Healing, Pain, Personal, Shame , add a commentARTICLE BY DAVID ZINCZ Some relationships end with fighting. Some end with crying. Some end with sex. Some end with verbal insults (or dishes) being thrown at sound-barrier-breaking speeds. Whatever the case, break-ups can be uglier than some Dancing with the Stars performances. Let’s face it: some relationships aren’t meant to be, so a break-up averts a bigger disaster. So when the Love Boat hits the iceberg, who handles it better? My answer: Women. Several studies show that men experience more depression, distress, and anxiety after break-ups than women do. Men might like to come across as being tougher than overcooked steak after a breakup, but the truth is that they’re actually more the consistency of jelly. Believe me-I see the letters of hundreds of men desperate for advice on how to win their ex back. Here’s why some men come undone during a breakup:
Men Mask Their Pain
When a guy is dumped, his first reaction is: I’ll show her. How he sometimes does it: With a couple pitchers and a night out with the guys. In fact, 26 percent of men say that the dumped party should get drunk with the guys after a break-up, according to a Men’s Health online survey. But those beer swillers are actually in the minority: 36 percent say a guy should look at his new ex, smile, and thank her. The thing is, both of those reactions are exactly the same thing-masks for their true feelings. They can’t deal with being hurt, or angry, or bummed. It’s not until after they get past their initial reaction that men actually mourn the loss of the relationship. Women are more likely to cry soon after the breakup, and they’re also more likely to use straight talk when ending a relationship, studies find. So women face their relationship blues head on, and get them out of their systems earlier. Many men tend to repress their reaction, so it lingers like basement mold.