Heartbreaks and breakups October 8, 2007
Posted by uhuh in : Dating, Loneliness, Love, Pain, Personal , trackbackIt really is not easy to break up with someone especially if you are in the receiving end of the deal. Meaning, you are the one being left out.
I have a friend who is currently mourning over the breakup thingie. He said he loves her but failed to show his affections fully. The girl said he has always been busy with other things and that he doesn’t have enough time for her so she decided to end it. By ending it, it appears that she is also ending the friendship. Now that hurts a lot.
My friend is actually mourning over the loss of a great person whom he loves and also over the shortcomings that he did in the past. He admits that he didn’t really give enough of his time. He failed to make her important.
Well, that’s how things sometimes happen. We never know when things begin and end. The important lesson there is to show love and give your best while he or she is still there to experience it. Regretting over unexpressed love is just the most painful thing there is in loving.
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just checked out your site and this post caught my attention, hehe. hmmm.. it sounded like someone i know. loving someone really does cause you pain, but we’ll just have to take it in a positive light (coz sometimes we learn things the hard way). we’ll just have to learn from it and never be afraid of loving someone again. we just need time to wallow the pain, a time to let go, a time to heal and a decision to move on. i guess your friend we’ll be alright…
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